OK, first off, I am not a trophy fuck! A few years ago, we played with a single guy that we met from the site. We had a good time and at the end of the evening said our goodbyes. A few days later, I was reviewing the profiles and I came across one that the single guy had submitted. The picture of him on the profile was of him wearing a "I fucked Mel" t-shirt. In the text, he said he'd fucked me like I was some sort of achievement or trophy.

It was devastating, been treated like that and it took a long time for me to build up the courage to get back into the scene, and the experience has definately changed me. Me and Adam have been swinging for over nine years now, and we've made some great friends and had some wild times that you just wouldn't believe. I'm no longer in the scene for one night stands and quick fucks, it's far more about playing with people I know socially and knowing that they're playing with me because they like me and not because I run a bloody website, or they think I'm some sort of porn star.

I'm also, far more into ladies than I am into men. This doesn't mean that I don't play with guys, there's somethings that you can only do with two guys (althoughs there's always strap-ons). It just means before I'll play with a guy, I really have to get to know him and make sure to myself that he's not just after me as somesort of a trophy.

We normally arrange to meet couples at parties or clubs, where it's easier to socialise and often I'm not recognised, so I can be myself. When we do play at parties, it's normally as a bi-fem couple, where I play and the hubbies watch. Adam does play, it's just easier to be a bi-fem couple where Adam doesn't play, so I don't feel pressurised to play with the hubby. This does mean that Adam often turns down the chance to play for me, but he's a babe, and I try to arrange meets for him where I get to watch (I love watching him with other women), so he doesn't feel left out.

Now, on to Adam, he has no problem at all with being treated as a trophy fuck, he'd get the t-shirts printed himself if he had half the chance (joke). I love watching him play, and after ten years of teaching him how to do it, he's pretty good, even if I say so myself. So, ladies, I'm offering him out to anyone who wants him, all I ask is that I get to watch. I don't mind if he plays with you, or you and your partner, it's cool, I just like watching him play. Just email me with what you'd like to do with him or what you want him to do, and I'll see what I can arrange. Please only email me about it, as I never tell him what's going on, it's always a surprise for him.

So, if after reading all that, you think we could be friends and you'd like to meet us at a party or you'd like to have some fun with Adam, drop me a line with a few pics and a bit about you and we can take it from there. Email me at mel@melanies-uk-contacts.com

Have fun and play safe, Luv Mel xxx