Placing an advert can be the best way of finding
the right partners for you, rather than browsing the adverts searching
for the right people. How successful your advert will be in finding
the right people for you will depend on what you put in it. How
many times have you looked at an advert, that really doesn't tell
you anything, for example :-
Young couple, he 26, she 28 bi, seek others
for sexy fun.
All that tells you is that he's 26 straight, and
she's 28 and bi. How do you even reply to an ad like that, now
take a look at this one :-
Young couple, he 26 6'1 slim build, well
built where it matters, she 28 5'2" bi, slim with long blond
hair. Both non-smokers. We are a new to the scene couple seeking
other couples and bi-females for slow sexy fun. Not into anything
weird, anal or pain. We like oral, dressing up, massage, long
foreplay, and slow seductive sex. Can travel within 50 miles,
can't accommodate. No single males, please send a picture for
a quick reply.
Now that ad tells you a lot more, and will filter
the replies, so they have more chance of meeting people. The things
you really should include in an ad are :-
A description of you and your partner, try to be
as descriptive as possible, include things like height, build,
hair colour, tattoos, piercings, beards. Just make it a good description.
Your sexual preferences, include what you enjoy,
what you'd like to try, your fantasies, all this information will
help other couples in deciding wether they would like to help
you act out your fantasies.
Your likes or dislikes, sexual or general, this
includes smoking, drinking, hygiene, food, music, movies and sexual
activities. if you hate oral, then say so, remember the more information,
the more likely you'll find the right couples. If you're trying
to make new friends aswell, then including your general likes
and dislikes will help to find couples like you.
Who you are looking for, your perfect couple, if
you don't say what you're looking for, how will other swingers
know if they are what you're looking for. If you want well endowed
males, say so, it's as simple as that.
Other stuff, these include anything that doesn't
fit above, but you think would help find the right couple, if
you want to start a party group, say so, those who are interested
will contact you if they read it in your advert.
A word on single males, if you are looking for another
male to join you, then be specific, don't just say that you are
seeking single males, as you will be inundated with replies I
heard of one person who received over 2,000 reply's because they
weren't specific. Detail the type of person you are looking for,
place an age limit (eg. 25-30), build?. The more specific you
are the less timewasting reply's you'll get, but don't worry,
there will be plenty of replies from your type of man.
Do not use phone numbers in adverts as you will
get malicious calls from people who have nothing better to do,
if you want to give your number, send it to them when you are
in e-mail contact with them, and use a mobile number, not your
home phone.
Photos, you should always try to include a photo
with your advert, how often do you ignore the profiles without
photos? If you can't add a photo for any reason, make sure you
go to town to your text description. The profiles can support
up to 16 different photos, so try to include a good selection
along with your advert.
Pictures should be well lit, and in focus, and
should show what you really look like. Think about what you want
to see when someone sends you a photo. Your photo's don't have
to be all of you naked, although it is quite nice to have a few.
Nice sexy shots, showing off your best features are just right.
Its fine if you don't want to show your face off at first, the
last thing you want is to be sending them to someone you know
(like your boss). Remember to cover your tattoo's and other identifying
marks. Put your e-mail address across your photo's, this deters
picture collectors.
Scan your photo's, keep the size no bigger than
25-30k and the resolution at about 72dpi. Organize them into a
folder (passworded if other people have access to your PC )
Now your ready to place an ad, go here
to place one on this site, just follow the instructions here,
be honest, be genuine and remember to reply to all e-mails, even
if to say no thanks.
Luv Mel xxxx
